Ask.Mefi: How do you save a marriage after an affair? ⇒
30 November 2009, early morning
“A married man came on to me. Before I knew it, I was involved in an affair with not only this married man but another younger, single man as well.” You’d think she wasn’t an active participant from her description of things. The affair took place before the marriage, and it looks like she isn’t going to save her marriage. This seems like the sort of thing to sort out before you have a wedding. It’s kind of a downer of a relationship thread.
This is a post from my link log: If you click the title of this post you will be taken the web page I am discussing.
she sounds like a fuck up.
Her husband is well shod of her.
Boyfriend, married man…other boyfriend…holy shit…how ADD is she?
How did she think that she’d get away with that shit?
Live and learn.
Hopefully, her loss will teach her something about how to treat people.
by radmila on November 30 2009, 10:53 pm #
I think some people need to fuck up hard before they sort themselves out. (And this would be an example of fucking up hard.) I’m not sure how she expected to keep multiple affairs secret, though I suppose people must be able to swing it. Even with her follow up posts, it sounds like she doesn’t really accept responsibility for any of her actions.
by ramanan on December 1 2009, 10:14 am #